11 Simple Parenting Rules to Follow

In talking to mothers of grown children and asking the question, “What’s one piece of advice you would offer a new parent?” I was surprised at the diversity of the answers. Read on for some quick snippets of parenting rules and advice I received from other mothers.

11 Simple Parenting Rules to Follow

  1. Don’t “sermonize.” This means: don’t go in circles repeating things. The kids heard it the first time. The second, third, or fourth times goes in one ear and out the other and they tune you out!
  2. If you feel you’re too strict, don’t hesitate to loosen up!
  3. Give in on the little things, so when you have to stand firm (for their own protection) on the bigger things, you’re not considered a monster!
  4. Say “no” when it really counts.
  5. Don’t make a big issue over things unless it involves a matter of faith and morals. Sometimes it is better to look the other way.
  6. Make sure that the extracurricular activities your child chooses follow the continuity and morals of your home life.
  7. Be thankful for your children and treat them as special individuals.
  8. Have objectives and then be persistent.
  9. Have the same rules and regulations for each child.
  10. The most important thing to do when raising children is to be persistent and consistent. That way they won’t be confused as to what the rules are, how to follow them, and what’s expected of them.
  11. Something I did as I was raising my children was pray a lot! You just can’t go wrong!

As I mentioned, these are just quick little snippets, but I believe they make sense and are worth thinking about…and possibly adopting. What are your thoughts and advice?

 

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Carol Schmidt is the mother of three grown daughters and has always said the most important job in the world is that of a parent. For years she has asked a very important question: "If you knew then what you know now..." She is excited to share with others the insight she has gleaned through the years.
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Carol Schmidt is the mother of three grown daughters and has always said the most important job in the world is that of a parent. For years she has asked a very important question: "If you knew then what you know now..." She is excited to share with others the insight she has gleaned through the years.

4 thoughts on “11 Simple Parenting Rules to Follow

  • November 3, 2016 at 2:11 am
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    I think #2 “If you feel you’re too strict, don’t hesitate to loosen up!” goes a long way. Thank you for linking up with us on #FabFridayPost My apology for that it took me so long to comment. Hope you can join us again tomorrow. 🙂 x

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  • October 25, 2016 at 2:58 am
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    Say “no” when it really counts – I agree. Thanks fr sharing these simple tips. Her ethrough #FabFridayPost

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